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Where do decisions actually move?
It’s not where we think. There’s something subtle, but important, happening in how leaders connect today.
THE SHIFT
Where Decisions Actually Happen
IT’S NOT WHERE WE THINK…

A shift in how people connect is here: Rekonnekt
You know, I’ve been thinking about how leaders connect today, and there’s something subtle happening.
We’ve become very good at optimising everything for efficiency.
Tight agendas. Structured conversations. Clear expected outcomes.
On paper, it all makes sense.
But if you’ve been in enough of those rooms, you probably feel it too… something is missing.
Because the conversations that really matter, the ones that shift direction or bring real clarity, rarely happen when everything is perfectly controlled.
They usually happen in between.
What I keep noticing is that when you change the environment, everything starts to shift.
Take people out of their usual setting for a moment.
Remove that underlying pressure to perform.
Put them side by side instead of across a table.
Something opens up.
Hierarchy fades a bit into the background.
People actually listen, not just wait for their turn to speak.
And slowly, they start saying what they really think, not just what sounds right.
Not because anyone asked them to.
But because the space allows it.
There’s also something about being in motion.
Walking together.
Sharing a bit of effort.
Even allowing silence without needing to fill it.
It changes the quality of the conversation.
Ideas land differently.
Questions go deeper.
And answers tend to be more honest.
We often think better decisions come from better data.
And yes, data matters.
But more often than not, the real gap is somewhere else.
It’s in alignment.
It’s in trust.
It’s in having enough clarity between people to actually move forward.
And that doesn’t come from more slides.
It comes from creating better conditions for the right conversations to happen.
Perhaps the question is not:
“How do we make better decisions?”
But:
“Where, and how, do those decisions actually take shape?”

Through movement, something shifts.
A Final Note
NOTES FROM THE FOUNDER
“Earn trust, earn trust, earn trust. Then you can worry about the rest.”
Author: Seth Godin
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